The Fashionista Professional. Not What You May Think!

Do you work with someone who seems to have it all?

A high paying career, the love and respect of peers, intellectually stimulating, great corner office, wonderful family and support system? And to top it all off, this person is not the typical nerd, but is also a drop dead gorgeous fashionsta? How do they do it? Some people carry themselves with such grace and poise that they exude class and a bright light - even in the the workplace.

Class is something that one naturally possesses and is not something that can be taught or even learned. Often times we admire these individuals and the insecure people (lurking around us) envy and criticize the fashionista professionals.

Instead of criticizing someone because you see them in all of their glory; take the time to get to know them and learn their story.

I have found myself being the fashionista professional many times and I have been on the receiving end of both admiration and fierce envy.

This song runs deep through my mind and spirit. And it represents everything about why it's terrible to judge someone without taking them time to get to know their story.

By: Mary Mary (It's the God in Me).

Here are the lyrics:

You're so fly, your so high

Everybody around you trying to figure out why

Your so cool, you win all the time

Everywhere you go man you get a lot of shine

You're draw like a magnet better yet I have it

Everything you wear people say they got have it

From the sweat suit to the white tee to the Gucci

You can probably say people wanna get like me

But what they don't know is when you go home

And get behind closed doors, man you hit the floor

And what they can't see is your on your knees

So the next time you get a chance tell 'em

It's the God in me

It's the God in me

It's the God in me

It's the God in me

It's the God in me

You think I'm so fresh, you think I'm so clean

You think I'm so sweet

It's the God in me

It's the God in me

What is it you think you see

It's the God in me

You see her style you think she nice

You look at her whip you say the whip tight

You look at her crib you thinkin' she's paid

You look at her life, now you think she's got it made

But everything she's got the girl's been given

She calls it a blessing but you call it living

When it comes to money she can be a hero

She writes them checks with a whole lot of zeros

But what you don't know is when she get home

And get behind closed doors, man she hits the floor

And what you can't see is she's on her knees

If you ask her she'll tell you

It's the God in me

It's the God in me

It's the God in me

It's the God in me

It's the God in me

You think I'm so fresh, you think I'm so clean

You think I'm so sweet

It's the God in me

It's the God in me

What is it you think you see

It's the God in me

What is it you think you see

When you see me, you see me

You don't know how much I pray

Don't know how much I gave

Don't know how much I changed

I'm just trine explain

So, before using your voice to assault and criticize, use your mind and just think, everyone has a story, and her's may have led her to work harder, longer and cross unimaginable hurdles to become the person that you see and blindly judge everyday. Just know that the light that you see is the spirit of God flowing through her inside and out!